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Events and experiences including separation, divorce, job loss, starting over, and new relationships from 2017 to 2020.

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It’s Saturn’s Fault! My Fight With Limerence

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly January 7, 2024Posted in2024, Before Now, Relationships, SpiritualityNo Comments
I’m going through some kind of transition in my life. My sleep is disrupted, I’m in the midst of (re)creating my life, yet I’m lapsing into behaviours that I thought…
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In the Shadow of the Mountain

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly July 23, 2023Posted in2023, Before NowNo Comments
I ordered a pizza with real cheese yesterday. I’ve given up being vegan. Mostly it’s because I thought that by being vegan, I would avoid all those horrible health challenges…
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10,000 Steps: Why Your Dog Has a Better Life Than You Do

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly June 29, 2023Posted in2023, Before NowNo Comments
When you think about it, dogs are living way better lives than we are now. I just spent the past two hours running back and forth in my yard moving…
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Back to the Future – Never SAY Never

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly May 15, 2023Posted in2023, Before Now, Money & Survival, Spirituality, WorkNo Comments
In an odd twist of fate, I am back at my old place of employment – the very place that fired me for refusing to be vaccinated. (This is now…
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ChatGPT Says You Should Feel Good About Being a Dead End

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly March 2, 2023Posted in2023, Before Now, Money & SurvivalNo Comments
Have you noticed the rise of articles talking about the world’s population crisis recently? In the 70s and 80s we were shamed by the environmentalists if we had more than…
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How to Choose a Winning Environment

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly October 26, 2022Posted in2022, Before Now, Money & Survival, Outsiders, Vaccination Madness, WorkNo Comments
A few years ago I heard a saying that’s stuck with me: The environment always wins so choose a winning environment. What does this mean? First, there’s your physical environment.…
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Hurting From the Truth & Being Free

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly October 3, 2022Posted in2022, Before Now, Outsiders, RelationshipsNo Comments
My son got married last weekend but an occasion that should have been full of joy for me was an exercise in stoicism and humility. Thankfully, I was able to…
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How I Learned to Love Humble Pie

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly July 13, 2022Posted in2022, Before Now, Relationships, WorkNo Comments
Ray Dalio has made me see what I’m dealing with here: a great lesson in humility. I cannot tell you how it feels when people who once knew me as…
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On Being a Nerd: How to Be Cool

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly April 19, 2022Posted in2022, Before Now, Outsiders, Relationships, SpiritualityNo Comments
Most of the time, I am a friendly kind of nerd – at least that is how I play my role in life. I like to appear unthreatening so that…
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Bring Out Your Inner Pippi

Bring Out Your Inner Pippi

Posted by By Kathleen Kelly February 28, 2022Posted in2022, Before Now, Outsiders, Relationships, Spirituality, Vaccination MadnessNo Comments
It’s four in the morning. Wayne Dyer, the wise spiritual leader – on the other side now, as they say – has many videos still up on YouTube. I watched…
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Welcome!

I started writing as a way to make sense of the break-up of a long-term relationship.

Lately I’m exploring what it’s like jumping back into the dating pool, why friends are important, and my thoughts on the state of the world. I also wrote a lot about how I felt being fired and ostracized for refusing to be vaccinated.

I’m sharing all the ideas I can think of for how to survive financially and, as always, throwing in some of my weird spiritual thoughts to keep things interesting…

Mostly, I hope some of what I write will help you cope during these unprecedented times.

May the Force be with you.

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